Thursday, December 30, 2010
Christmas Pasts
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Through the Years
August 2006 ~ Luke 6 Months
What happened to my baby???
Saturday, December 4, 2010
Fun in the Snow
First, the Cans Movie Fest (of course not outside), for a family movie.
Then, Christmas fun in downtown Rochester with carriage rides, Santa's arrival, and so on...
Last, but not least, Zoodazzle at Oxbow Zoo.
Looks to be a great day with the fresh snow and the last day of bearable temps!
Maybe see you out and about all bundled up like us:)
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Little Boy Dreams
We were talking about how we're going to Oxbow Zoo on Saturday for an event they have with Christmas lights, etc...I can't remember what it's called, something like Holidazzle. Anyway, started asking questions about people who work at Oxbow.
L: The people at Oxbow know how to take care of the animals.
J: Yes, they do.
L: How do they know how to take care of the animals.
J: Well, after you are done going to school, you start college. When you're in college, you get to decide what classes you want to take and what you want to learn about. Some people go to school to learn all about animals. (We've previously explained college to him so he gets the idea.)
L: So the people that work at Oxbow learned about the animals?
J: Yes, some people go to school to be animal doctors who help sick animals. They are called veterinarians.
Things became rather quiet for a short time, then...
J: What do you think you want to learn when you go to college so you can work somewhere someday?
L: I want to learn about animals and work at Oxbow. I'll have a leash and I'll go find the sick animals in the woods and bring them back, because I'll know the way out of the woods.
J: You mean you'll bring them back to the zoo with their leash.
L: Yep, like bears and wolves and foxes. You can come see me at the zoo.
J: Maybe someday you'll have kids too and they came come see you at the zoo.
L: Yeah, then they can go look for the animals and I won't worry where they go.
J: Don't you think you should take care of your kids once you're the daddy?
L: Yeah, but I'll always know where they are, no matter where they go.
J: Well, Luke, I think you have a pretty good plan for your life: go to college to learn about animals, get a job at Oxbow, and maybe have kids.
Life sure is simple from the eyes of a four year old. If only it were that simple and none of the details got in the way...like how much college costs and how long it can take, getting a job doing exactly what you want at the exact place you want to work, and always knowing where your kids are:)
I love listening to Luke dream about the future. I ask him sometimes if he's quiet in the car what he's thinking about. Recently he has answered, I'm just dreaming:) (I'm thinking he heard someone say day dreaming before, but cut out the day.) So, I'm always glad when he chats about it with me rather than just dreaming to himself.
Oh how I love days like these!
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Meal Planning Update
- Save money on groceries - CHECK (Stayed within budget for November!
- Save on stress of meal prep each day - DOUBLE CHECK!!! (I've so appreciated this one personally)
- Save money on eating out - CHECK
- Trying more of the new recipes I accumulate - CHECK
- Making more of the recipes we love - CHECK
- Saving on trips to the store - This was not on my original list, but I've really liked this one as I really dislike grocery shopping
Our family calendar printed from Google
I figure out which nights I have more or less time to make dinner, then I plug in the foods with prep time that works well. (Obviously our schedule changes through out the month, but it gives us somewhere to start and then we're flexible as the month goes.) I also try to consider which recipes have ingredients that are perishable that I may already have on hand and when they expire (i.e. I had some half-and-half left from a recipe in November that expired next week, so I plan to make a pasta with half-and-half this week so I can use what I have left.) Again, obviously this does not work perfectly, but it does lessen my trips to the store and the food I waste, which I feel good about.
Our completed December meal plan
I would love to tell you that this is the end of the process and that all of the meals magically appear each evening warm on our table, but, trust me, this process takes some prep work...Brent joked last night as I had recipes/recipe books strewn about on the floor trying to decide which to make and when that I looked like I was studying for an exam:) But, in my opinion, it's worth it in so many ways!
So, after the meal plan is established, I make a HUGE grocery list of everything I need for the recipes. This month, it was a page and a half long hand written with two columns! Once I compare the list to what I have on hand, it gets a bit smaller:) This next part is just a sign of my obsessive compulsive tendencies, but then I type the list so it is organized by areas of WalMart. This helps me as I'm shopping to be sure I don't forget anything. (P.S. Brent thinks my list is great!)
I'm sure you're thinking by now that this process must take me forever! Honestly, I did all of my meal planning last night, grocery list and all, in just a couple hours. Then today, I compared my grocery list to the WalMart shopping list on pocketyourdollars.com (I learned about this site from a community ed class this fall from the lady that started it...she has a very inspiring story). I mainly use printable coupons since I don't get the newspaper to get all of the coupon inserts (which are also referenced on the site above). I saved about $15 on our grocery trip today (about 4% of our total bill). I think that's pretty good, since I don't invest much time into the coupon aspect.
At the end of all the work above, the grocery shopping still has to be done....my least favorite part:( I have to admit though, the grocery shopping is far less annoying because I know I've done the prep work to make it easier, and I know that I will not have to come back to do a huge trip like this again for another month! Good incentive:) I was VERY blessed this month to have Brent along for the trip...thankfully, because we had two carts full (including large paper products like paper towels, TP, etc). Yep, we're one of those families with two carts:) I am also incredibly blessed to have a very patient son who has always enjoyed grocery shopping (truly, he used to get excited to go when he was a toddler:)).
The end product is a VERY full kitchen! For those of you that have been at our house, you know we don't have a lot of cupboard space and I do not have a pantry, but I make use of every cubic inch, as you can see below:)
Our snack basket full of some of our favorites: granola bars and pop tarts
Our make-shift mini-pantry, with above snack basket
Our one and only food cupboard (other than the mini-pantry above)
Our filled fridge
Our filled freezer
I'm sure you have some questions, like don't I have to go to the store through out the month for some items? Sure do, but the trips are much faster and much cheaper. I'm anticipating that this month I'll need to make another trip just for items I need for Christmas since I'll be bringing food places and hosting. I also utilize Kwik Trip for milk, potatoes, and bananas that they sell cheap. You may also be asking how much we stick to the schedule? We stick to it pretty well, but, as I mentioned above, we adjust as needed. Last month there was only one meal from the entire month that we didn't make and it was more of a fall back meal anyway (stuff we usually have on hand). I also plan in days for left overs and grab-and-go meals like Smart Ones or sandwiches when we are on a tight schedule. Last month I only planned one evening for us to pick up dinner, which was because we had to be somewhere very quickly after work and wouldn't even have time at home. I have one day like that in December that I'm anticipating too. But, we have certainly saved A LOT on eating out!
I think that about covers it for now....this got longer than I expected and Luke is asking that I get done too:)
Happy Meal Planning!
Monday, November 22, 2010
Fall Blessings
We have been blessed in so many ways this fall, so am going to go with bullets to share our fall blessings:
- The amazing fall weather in Minnesota!
- My first enjoyable walk with just Kobe and I -- no pulling, no clean up, no problems!
- Walking outside into the crisp fall air
- The Money Matters sermon series that has sparked many conversations and changes in our finances
- Celebrating life -- Our niece, Annalise's first birthday
- Watching the first snow fall of the season from my warm house
- Celebrating our memories of the baby we lost last year...I finally put all of the physical memories I had into a book
- Having Miss Debbie Kilgallin's help with arranging decorations above the cabinets in our kitchen
- Hearing references to the "holiday season" on the radio...it just makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside:)
- Beginning Christmas shopping
Just in the past week, I am so thankful for...
- Having lunch with "old" high school friends before our 10 Year Class Reunion...that doesn't make us old right???
- Hearing my favorite Christmas song for the first time this year (The Drifters, White Christmas)
- Putting up the Christmas tree with Brent and Luke
- Finding the exact gift I wanted for the special grandma's in Luke's life
- Sharing a wonderful Thanksgiving with both Brent's family and mine (and not having to travel on the icy roads to see them)
- Enjoying, what is becoming a tradition, of going to the Festival of Trees and the Disney Live Show with Luke and my parents
I'm also anticipating...
- Having the MOPS Steering Team over for a Christmas dinner
- Making Christmas cookies with my mom, sister, and Luke
- Watching Christmas movies with Luke
- Having Valerie Godsey at MOPS to speak
- The children's Christmas program at church
- Hosting our first ever Picker family Christmas at our house (Brent's parents, brothers, and their families)
- Lots of Christmas fun...maybe a play, events downtown Rochester (like Santa's arrival), and of course more Christmas shopping!
As you can tell, I LOVE this time of the year...I love fall for the beauty, the weather, and the anticipation of the holidays...and there is just SO much to love about Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years!
I hope you are all enjoying the season as well and that I get to see many of your smiling faces sooner than later!
Since there are just too many pictures of the fun to post on the blog, be sure to check out the links to pictures on the left.
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Meal Planning
- Save money on groceries by buying only what we need, finding coupons on the foods we need, and wasting less food because everything we buy will be planned for a meal.
- Save on stress by having everything in the house to make the meals and the dreaded "what are we having for dinner tonight" thoughts and questions that we experience way too often around here
- Saving money by eating out less (good motivation in today's sermon)
- Trying more new recipes as I seem to collect more than I actually try
- Remaking more of the recipes that we love (this bullet and the previous will occur easier if I get myself organized:))
That's the plan...I'll try to remember to report how it goes as the month progresses!
Saturday, October 16, 2010
Blessed
I realized I am very blessed as we discussed our personality types and how they work in our home. Brent and I certainly have different personality types, but they must be pretty complimentary (either that or we've adjusted well to each other over the past 7 years:)) We also compliment each other pretty well as parents. Luke's young to identify his personality type, but I'd say he's a pretty good blend of Brent's and my personalities. All in all, I think our personalities blend pretty well as a family. We're all introverted and like to have time at home recharging between the other events of life and we're all pretty sensitive to each other's feelings and needs.
We certainly don't have it all figured out. Just in the past week, I can think of examples of each of us bugging one another and misunderstanding one another. But, I think it's important to find the blessings in life:)
On a similar note, the same day as MOPS, Luke and I had our semi-annual dentist appointments. If I remember right, this was Luke's third or fourth visit to the dentist. This week, I could tell he's gotten more comfortable at the dentist office. He was Chatty Cathy with the hygienist and the dentist. It was so cute:) The hygienist even mentioned that he did very good waiting for my teeth to be cleaned/checked and then to have his own teeth cleaned/checked. This got me thinking about some of the "preschool firsts" like going to the dentist, getting a haircut, and going to the doctor. All of which can be scary and intimidating for kids. I was reminded how blessed we've been with Luke in these events. He was a little apprehensive the first time at the dentist and had to sit on my lap while his teeth were cleaned/checked, but he complied and the hygienist was able to do all she needed. Luke still cracks me up when we get his haircut. He's been getting his haircut about every 5-6 weeks since he was two years old, but he still sits like a statue and will not talk during his haircut:) I don't think he's nervous, because he's always excited to go, but he seems to believe he needs to be completely motionless for the entire cut. He also does well at the doctor with the typical checkups and visits for ear infections, strep, etc throughout the year. He likes our doctor and never seems stressed to go for a visit.
Luke at the Dentist:
Perspective
In April, I was concerned. I got on the scale to find that I was at the top of the 15 lb weight range I had been within since having Luke in 2006. (The pre-Luke weight story is even longer, and I don't think I'll get into that here.) I was frustrated with myself, but at a loss about what to do to make a change. I started thinking back to the times in my life that I had been successful at meeting a physical goal (running, weight loss, etc) and I realized that each time I had something I was committed to (a team or date). Around the same time I was thinking about my weight and what to do about it, a mass email was sent at work about Weight Watchers meetings that met at my building during one lunch hour a week. Honestly, I wasn't very excited at first. I didn't want to get all touchy-feely with a bunch of people who would have to know every thing I ate and every pound I lost (or gained). The reality was that I didn't have any other ideas, so I decided to attend one Weight Watchers meeting to see what it was all about. I remained skeptical the first week I was getting into the program, but I was pleasantly surprised when I lost 5 lbs the first week! My leader, Sherlyn, was a great encouragement and I learned that I did not have to share any details about my weight with the group. We were all there to support one another in the journey to our goals (which were different for each of us). So, I got hooked, got good at tracking my points, and got motivated to exercise again, specifically running.
Right around the time I started WW, they started a program to guide us toward either walking or running a 5K. It was just what I needed to get my rear in gear! I knew I could run from past experience, but I knew I needed to start from ground zero again since it had been so long. The WW 5K program was just the ticket! I started slow and worked myself up to running a 5K. It felt so good to have the "after run buzz" again. That is probably my favorite part of running:)
The rest is history (recent history:)). I learned to think in less "all or nothing" terms about eating and exercise. Even if I didn't make good food choices at lunch, didn't mean I needed to throw out the entire day and eat poorly. Or, even if I couldn't go for a 4 mile run, didn't mean it wasn't still benefiting me to run or walk 2 miles. It sounds simple, but it was an important break through for me.
Today, I find myself at the end of my "birthday week"...you know, the week when everyone wants to take you out to eat to celebrate and when you think "hey, it's my birthday" and give yourself permission to eat all of the treats. I haven't exercised all week, was feeling under the weather most of the days, and eating more than I should. Sounds like a recipe for disaster...if I kept it up...but the week ahead is a new week!
So, I am posting today to remind myself:
- that I have come a long way
- that it took a lot of work and commitment to lose what I've lost
- that I do not intend to lose the ground I've gained
Easter ~ April 4, 2010
October 5, 2010
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Fire Prevention Week
Brent, I mean Luke, spraying the hose.
Me, I mean Luke, ready to spray the extinguisher.
And yes, Luke did warm up to the environment after some more families came and he wasn't the focus of the fire fighters. He told us on the way home that he wants to be a fire fighter, so I'm thinking some of his shyness was pure awe that he was in the presence of such amazing men. He told me today that the plastic fire hat he got at the open house is very special to him and he insisted on wearing his "badge" sticker the next day at daycare:)
The special hat and badge on our future fire fighter.
All in all a great experience and a great night. I especially liked that we polished off the night with some Chinese food on the way home:)
Check out the pics on the October 2010 link on the left.
Memories - Old and New
In Luke's eyes, we're going to Great Papa's farm for a day of fun. For me, it's a walk down memory lane, remembering all the time I spent at Grandma and Grandpa Beckmann's house growing up. It's also exciting to bring Luke, a new generation, to enjoy the farm, spend time with extended family, and to create new memories.
The milk house I painted years ago in high school with my friend, Amanda...looks like it could use another coat:)
A shed that has been old in my eyes since I can remember behind the machine shed. (The old truck begged a photo:))
I remember when these blue spruce trees were planted as little saplings when I was a kid. Once they got big enough, I remember cutting one down every year for a Christmas tree. They've outgrown the Christmas tree stage.
My favorite tree, yep, I have a favorite tree, don't you?:) This old cottonwood is enormous! My dad calls it a landmark tree, and for good reason, you can see it clearly miles down the road and know it's Grandpa's farm. As kids we played a lot of softball in this front yard, and home plate was always right in front of the tree, then we hit toward the house.
The house. The large trees to the left are the blue spruce I talked about earlier...they're now taller than the house. Does that date me?;)
And finally, the basketball hoop on the barn door where I shot a lot of baskets. Simple, yet functional -- all a young kid needs:)
I've only scratched the surface of the memories I've made through the years at Grandma and Grandpa's, but it was fun looking back down memory lane. I can only hope that Luke has many years ahead of visiting Grandpa on the farm and that he has a wealth of fond memories like me.
Thanks to Steph for the great idea for an annual hayride, to Grandpa for hosting us all, and for our extended family for the new memories.
Check out the October 2010 link on the left for more pictures!
Friday, October 1, 2010
Days Like Today
Luke having his own fun during our day together...I found him trying to lie in the back window of the car before heading out for our errands this morning:)
Back to Blogging
First night at Timberbay
Yard games with Tommy
The one, and only fish caught all weekend.
Canoeing with Bridge and Ross
On our pontoon ride...I just love that smile:)
We kicked off September refreshed and rejuvenated after our trip up north, and found ourselves at the brink of football season. Football season might not mark a "season change" at your house, but at our house it certainly does. Brent LOVES football and counts down the days to both the college and NFL season kick offs. In addition to watching football, he also plays any chance he gets. This fall he plays Monday and Wednesday evenings for city league touch football, and Saturday mornings for an FCA flag football league. It's been extra fun this year because Luke has gotten more interested. He's been doing picks for the NFL games, and he looks forward to making picks Sunday mornings during breakfast with Daddy.
Luke has also loved being involved with the city league team Brent plays on with Corey. Luke went to several of their practices before the season and even got his own water bottle from Corey who runs the team. Luke was so excited that he had Brent write an L on his water bottle so it would not be confused with Daddy's water bottle:) Luke also has fun going to the games, telling me all about what each player is doing, and playing football on the sidelines with anyone willing to play. I don't know if you've heard Kenny Chesney's song, Boys of Fall, but it makes me think of Brent every time I hear it. He is certainly a 'boy of fall" and we've reminisced about the days of high school football when we were dating that the song makes us both think of:)
Saturday, August 28, 2010
The End of August...
The fun began Wednesday, August 25 when our nephew, Mekhi, came to stay with us. After a nice long nap, the boys we ready to go. We had dinner outside at Five Guys (new to Rochester), headed to the park, made cookies, and the boys watched Scooby Doo all before bed.
Even when they're sleeping, they are drawn to each other:)
Thursday, we headed to the MOPS park date and ended up spending two hours at Soldiers Field. It was a perfect day, but I finally had to remind myself that the boys could use a nap and we should get going. We made a quick stop at the store and the boys picked out a snack: Mekhi picked gummy worms and Luke picked pistachios (he said he wanted something crunchy:)). After naps, we made homemade chicken fingers for dinner. I don't make them often because they are messy, but they're worth it every time, especially when I make extras for left overs! The boys hung out with Brent most of the night while I got out for a run/walk. Mekhi thought he wanted to come with me, but we weren't sure if he was up for being in the stroller for an hour. So, the Brent brought the boys for a walk, which turned into a "run" for Luke and Mekhi by their own choosing:)
A couple lovely ladies on our steering team, Sabrina and Krista, planned a great night at the Cradic farm. The boys enjoyed face painting, chasing chickens and kittens, playing yard games, and eating hotdogs, cotton candy, and popcorn. This was all before they settled into the barn for the magic show and movie, Charlotte's Web. So much fun! Thankfully the boys stayed awake on the ride home so they could have baths after their day of swimming and playing on the farm.
Mekhi, Luke, and Ethan pretending to be tigers at the zoo on the rocks at Cradic's.
Saturday...whew...are you getting tired yet? I admit, I was toast by 9:30pm on Friday night:) On to Saturday, we spent the day in Faribault watching daddies (Brent, Troy, and Greg) and papa play softball in the annual church softball state tournament. We enjoyed yet another day outside picnicking, playing at the park, playing soccer, chatting, and lounging (guess which activities I did more of;)). We left the tournament before it was done today because Audra had two extra tickets for the Sesame Street Live Show at the Mayo Civic Center. After the show, Luke and I walked to Dos Amigos for a dinner date together on the patio. The perfect ending to a fun-filled day.
From left: Troy, Ethan, Brent, Luke, and Papa at the tournament.
Sunday we were off to more fun -- a ride on my uncle's houseboat on the Mississippi! Luke was really looking forward to the day and we had nice warm weather for a day on the water. Luke and I drove to Wabasha with my mom since Brent was busy with his fantasy football draft for the day. We met up with Jeff and Julie, Great Grandma and Grandpa, and my other uncle, Larry. We had a nice ride from Wabasha to Lake Pepin and back, during which Luke got to drive the boat with Jeff:)
Luke and Grandma behind the National Eagle Center.
Check out the more pics from August by clicking the link on the left.